What You Need for Your Daughter’s First Gynecologist Visit
Do you think it might be time for your daughter to see a gynecologist for the first time? The world of women’s health is ready to welcome the next generation of women to our ranks! Good news, we’re here to help her (and you!) get through that first visit with an obstetrician/gynecologist, also referred to as an Ob/Gyn.
The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends that girls start seeing a gynecologist between the ages of 13 and 15. Pap tests typically begin at 21.
Parents, here are a few tips to help your daughter learn what to expect at her first visit and put her nervous thoughts aside. Help her relax; there is nothing to fear.
Before the Gynecologist Exam
- Your daughter may be more comfortable if she is between periods when she has her first exam.
- Have your daughter write down a list of questions she would like to ask the doctor. Writing down questions will make them easier to remember and ease some of the nervousness when entering the office.
- The doctor is going to ask questions, lots of them! Gather medical history for easier flow of the appointment.
What Should She Expect at Her First Visit?
- First up, a conversation with the gynecologist. The doctor will ask your daughter questions about family health history, menstrual cycle, and vaccinations. The doctor is there to educate her so encourage your daughter to be honest. Remind her not to be embarrassed, as doctors ask these questions every single day and have heard it all. No topic is off-limits! Learn more about the first Ob/Gyn visit.
- A physical exam is going to be performed. This is an external exam similar to the pediatrician’s office. Yes, you can stay in the room if you and your daughter agree. The nurse will ask your daughter to undress and she will be given a hospital gown. A pelvic exam most likely won’t be done unless she is experiencing abnormal bleeding or pain.
- When the time comes for a pelvic exam, your daughter’s nerves may rise as she sees the speculum. Remind your daughter to take deep breaths and relax. It may feel uncomfortable. The Ob/Gyn will insert a speculum into her vagina to check for abnormalities, such as cysts or irritations.
- A Pap test should be done if your daughter is 21 years old or sexually active. Cells are taken from the cervix with a brush to be tested for cancer. Spotting is normal following a Pap smear.
Being prepared for the first visit should ease her fears and help her take the steps necessary to build a healthy future.
